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reconcile A with B
A和B可以是人或事物，表示使两者调和一致。
She reconciled her diary with the facts.
她使自己的日记与事实一致。
使和解；调停；使一致
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使和解；调停；使一致
come to terms
She reconciled her diary with the facts.
她使自己的日记与事实一致。
恢复友好关系；使重归于好。
To restore a friendly relationship; to bring back or return to harmony.
使事物兼容或一致。
To make things compatible or consistent.
使财务账户的借贷净差额与余额相符。
To make the net difference in credits and debits of a financial account agree with the balance.
reconcile
Base
原形
reconciles
3rd person
第三人称单数
reconciling
-ing
现在分词
reconciled
Past
过去式
reconciled
Past participle
过去分词
She reconciles her bank statement every month.
她每月核对银行对账单。
They reconciled their differences after the long discussion.
经过长时间讨论后，他们调和了分歧。
He has reconciled with his brother.
他已经和哥哥和好了。
常用于 reconcile with（与某人和解）或 reconcile to（使接受）
After their argument, they decided to reconcile.
争吵之后，他们决定和解。
He finally reconciled with his brother after years of silence.
经过多年的沉默，他终于与哥哥和解了。
She had to reconcile herself to the fact that she would never become a professional athlete.
她不得不接受自己永远不会成为职业运动员的事实。
A和B可以是人或事物，表示使两者调和一致。
She reconciled her diary with the facts.
她使自己的日记与事实一致。
表示使某人自己接受不愉快的情况。
He had to reconcile himself to the loss.
他不得不接受这个损失。
被动形式表示与某人和解的状态。
They are now reconciled with their neighbors.
他们现在与邻居和解了。
Not this
He reconciled his friend after the argument.
Use this
He reconciled with his friend after the argument.
reconcile 表示“与某人和解”时是不及物动词，必须加介词 with，否则不完整。
Not this
He reconciled to living alone.
Use this
He reconciled himself to living alone.
reconcile 表示“使顺从”时，需使用 reconcile oneself to 结构，不能直接加 to。
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调和分歧
They need to reconcile their differences to move forward.
他们需要调和分歧才能向前发展。
与...和解
She finally reconciled with her estranged brother.
她终于与疏远的兄弟和解了。
对账
The accountant reconciled the accounts at the end of the month.
会计在月底对账。
使自己接受
He reconciled himself to the fact that he had to start over.
他接受了必须从头开始的事实。
协调相互冲突的要求
The manager had to reconcile the conflicting demands of the two teams.
经理不得不协调两个团队相互冲突的要求。
兼顾工作和家庭
Many parents struggle to reconcile work and family responsibilities.
许多父母难以兼顾工作和家庭责任。
使自己顺从于，接受（不愉快的事物）
He has reconciled himself to the fact that he will never be a professional athlete.
他已经接受了自己永远不会成为职业运动员的事实。
调和分歧，化解矛盾
The two parties are trying to reconcile their differences through negotiation.
双方正试图通过谈判来调和分歧。
先去与你的兄弟和好，然后来献礼物。
After years of estrangement, she finally decided to reconcile with her sister.
经过多年的疏远，她终于决定与姐姐和好。
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re（再）+ concile（联想 council 会议），再次开会协商，化解矛盾，达成一致。
常见场景：人际关系、金融对账、意见分歧 该词多用于正式或半正式语境，如调和矛盾、核对账目，但在日常对话中也可使用，如‘reconcile differences’。
常用搭配：reconcile A with B（使A与B和解）；reconcile oneself to sth（使自己接受某事物）
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