reconcile A with B
A和B可以是人或事物，表示使两者调和一致。
She reconciled her diary with the facts.
她使自己的日记与事实一致。
使和解；调停；使一致
reconciled — past of reconcile
恢复友好关系；使重归于好。；使事物兼容或一致。；使财务账户的借贷净差额与余额相符。
come to terms
恢复友好关系；使重归于好。
To restore a friendly relationship; to bring back or return to harmony.
使事物兼容或一致。
To make things compatible or consistent.
使财务账户的借贷净差额与余额相符。
To make the net difference in credits and debits of a financial account agree with the balance.
一般现在时
She reconciles her bank statement every month.
她每月核对银行对账单。
一般过去时
They reconciled their differences after the long discussion.
经过长时间讨论后，他们调和了分歧。
现在完成时
He has reconciled with his brother.
他已经和哥哥和好了。
常用于 reconcile with（与某人和解）或 reconcile to（使接受）
After their argument, they decided to reconcile.
争吵之后，他们决定和解。
用法提示：这里reconcile用作动词，表示双方和解。
He finally reconciled with his brother after years of silence.
经过多年的沉默，他终于与哥哥和解了。
用法提示：reconcile with表示与某人达成和解。
She had to reconcile herself to the fact that she would never become a professional athlete.
她不得不接受自己永远不会成为职业运动员的事实。
用法提示：reconcile oneself to表示使自己接受（不愉快的事实）。
A和B可以是人或事物，表示使两者调和一致。
She reconciled her diary with the facts.
她使自己的日记与事实一致。
表示使某人自己接受不愉快的情况。
He had to reconcile himself to the loss.
他不得不接受这个损失。
被动形式表示与某人和解的状态。
They are now reconciled with their neighbors.
他们现在与邻居和解了。
侧重终止争端，不一定恢复关系，常用于纠纷。
强调找到解决方案，比reconcile更正式，常用于问题或冲突。
多用于事物、颜色、观点等之间的协调，非人际。
强调调整以适应，常用于计划、需求或差异。
指第三方介入斡旋，reconcile可指双方自行和解。
grammar · medium
易错句子He reconciled his friend after the argument.
正确表达He reconciled with his friend after the argument.
reconcile 表示“与某人和解”时是不及物动词，必须加介词 with，否则不完整。
grammar · medium
易错句子He reconciled to living alone.
正确表达He reconciled himself to living alone.
reconcile 表示“使顺从”时，需使用 reconcile oneself to 结构，不能直接加 to。
与'reconcile'（使和解）相对，指故意制造隔阂或使关系破裂
与'reconcile'（使和谐）相反，指破坏亲密关系
reconcile强调恢复和谐关系或使双方一致，而compromise侧重双方各自让步达成协议，不一定涉及情感修复。
reconcile常用于人际关系或抽象观念的对立，settle则更广泛，指解决争端、决定或安顿下来。
调和分歧
They need to reconcile their differences to move forward.
他们需要调和分歧才能向前发展。
与...和解
She finally reconciled with her estranged brother.
她终于与疏远的兄弟和解了。
对账
The accountant reconciled the accounts at the end of the month.
会计在月底对账。
使自己接受
He reconciled himself to the fact that he had to start over.
他接受了必须从头开始的事实。
协调相互冲突的要求
The manager had to reconcile the conflicting demands of the two teams.
经理不得不协调两个团队相互冲突的要求。
兼顾工作和家庭
Many parents struggle to reconcile work and family responsibilities.
许多父母难以兼顾工作和家庭责任。
使自己顺从于，接受（不愉快的事物）
He has reconciled himself to the fact that he will never be a professional athlete.
他已经接受了自己永远不会成为职业运动员的事实。
调和分歧，化解矛盾
The two parties are trying to reconcile their differences through negotiation.
双方正试图通过谈判来调和分歧。
先去与你的兄弟和好，然后来献礼物。
After years of estrangement, she finally decided to reconcile with her sister.
经过多年的疏远，她终于决定与姐姐和好。
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